This book is a testament to the idea that it’s not what happens to you, but what you do with what happens to you. It provides the tools and the permission to choose life, even in the shadow of death.

“This touching, poignant story needs to be read by anyone who loses someone they love deeply. Jerry’s grief is palpable, but the romance between them never wanes. Along with the sorrow, this book will also uplift and comfort you.”

—Pamela Des Barres, Bestselling Author

Dying to Live is a deeply moving and ultimately uplifting prescriptive memoir that chronicles the extraordinary journey of Jerry Danielsen and his beloved wife Angela. Following Angela’s devastating diagnosis of terminal cancer, they make a conscious and courageous decision: to prioritize living fully and creating lasting memories in the time they have left. Rather than succumbing to despair, we choose to embark on a series of travels, each destination carefully selected to offer unique experiences, foster connection, and maintain a positive outlook in the face of profound loss.

But Dying to Live is more than the story of their journey; it is a practical guide for anyone facing a terminal diagnosis, whether as a patient, caregiver, or loved one. It offers a clear roadmap for taking back control from illness, providing actionable insights on how to:

  • Navigate the overwhelming medical system and become a fierce, effective advocate.
  • Proactively schedule joy and adventure to transform a grim calendar into a map of hope.
  • Communicate through fear and grief to deepen your partnership.
  • Manage the practical and emotional burdens of caregiving without losing yourself.

Jerry Danielsen is a composer, producer, and author who has spent decades finding the melody in the noise. A recipient of both a Gold Record and a Signal Award, Jerry’s career in music and audio storytelling ultimately prepared him for his most important role: primary caregiver and fierce advocate for his late wife, Angela.


  • Next Event

    Visit Jerry at the Valencia Public Library on Saturday, October 10th, from noon to 1:30PM!

    He will be available to answer questions and sign your copy of Dying to Live.

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